Do You Know Me?

If I knocked on your door to borrow a cup of sugar, would you know that I'm your neighbor? Like most Americans, if you live within a few houses of me, I would know you; but further than that, probably not.

I knew I would need the help of many hands when we first moved into our neighborhood years ago. Raising two special needs boys takes a village!

We had moved from the protection of a townhome community into this wonderful neighborhood with single family houses and big back yards. How would I ever keep track of my boys? I was more than freaked out. I had to create a plan, and quickly!

By the end of that day, I had composed a letter to my new neighbors describing our unique family and the type of help I was looking for. I was nervous about being so open with strangers, but I felt I had no other choice. I even put my phone number on the letter. Armed with freshly-baked cookies, my letter and a smile, I introduced myself to each new neighbor.

I never dreamed they would be so friendly and understanding. It wouldn't be long before I needed to call upon their assistance, which they gladly offered. Within a year or so, we started planning block parties. My neighbor and I were the planners and these parties delighted everyone for 17 years. We've never missed a year, having two parties each year.

One of the many benefits is that we developed a strong sense of community and love. If one neighbor was sick or in need, we would rally around and offer support. Just like the photo above, if one hand leaves that photo, the heart isn't complete. We have all became good friends.

Our daily physical connection was temporarily severed during Covid-19. God created us to be connected to each other, to need and help each other. We all found ways to stay connected one way or another. However, at that time, we felt like a part of our hearts were missing.

Keep calling your neighbors to say hello. Why not be brave and venture out to meet new neighbors? The next time you knock on their door, you won't have to ask, "Do you know me?"